The first date often makes us feel excited and nervous at the same time. We want to show the best of us and to make a good impression. On the other hand we don’t know much about the other person – it’s our first date. So choosing the right gift idea would not be an easy task.
If we are not sure how the other person will accept and interpret our first date gift, we should aim for smaller, more neutral and common presents. The more special gifts we should save for the next dates when we know that the other person is really interested in us
Things you should consider when choosing a first date gift:
1. Choose something small but thoughtful – we can show our affection with a nice present, but this should not make the recipient feel uncomfortable
2. Avoid overly romantic and intimate gifts – save those for later after you relationship has deepen enough
3. Get something shareable – this way the person won’t feel that obligated and uncomfortable, and you can have your common shared experience that can make you closer.
4. Don’t give the present right after you met – spend some time and look for the right moment, maybe after you already had some conversation and have know each other a little bit more.
5. If you are creative person and make art or crafts – give them something that represents your work – this way it will be a more neutral, and at the same thoughtful present.
Curious fact
Interestingly, studies have shown that gifts on first dates can influence perceptions of generosity and thoughtfulness, but overly extravagant gifts might create discomfort, as they could be interpreted as trying too hard or creating an imbalance in expectations.
There are some classical gift ideas for first dates which could help you express your affection with a small gesture without making the other person feel pressured:
Beeswax Candles Gift
Beeswax candles are 100% natural and have nice scent. They are nontoxic and biodegradable and have longer burning time. Their eco-friendly nature also reflects thoughtfulness toward sustainability, a trait that many find appealing. Suitable for Valentines’, Christmas present, or just without any special occasion.
Box of Chocolates
Indulge the person you will be dating with delicious sweets to show your affection and make a good impression. There is a big variety of luxurious and high quality boxes of chocolates on the market – with impressive looking wrappings and various flavors. Our chocolate gift suggestion is cocoa dusted chocolate truffles in a cat gift tin.
Lavender in a pot
A lavender plant in a pot makes an exceptional first-date gift, which combines beauty, practicality, and thoughtfulness. Lavender symbolizes serenity, grace, and calm, which can create a soothing and positive impression. Unlike cut flowers, a potted lavender plant lasts much longer and it can serve as a delightful reminder of the date. Its fragrant aroma and vibrant purple blooms bring a sense of nature and relaxation to any space, while its low-maintenance care makes it a perfect gift for those with or without a green thumb.
Wine Gift
Bringing a bottle of wine as a gift on a first date is a classy and thoughtful gesture that sets a warm and welcoming tone. A carefully chosen wine, like a light and approachable Pinot Noir or a crisp Sauvignon Blanc, shows effort while remaining versatile enough to suit various tastes. Choose a bottle with a story, like a locally produced wine or one from a renowned vineyard, to spark conversation. Pairing the wine with elegant and subtle packaging, like a reusable wine tote or a simple ribbon, elevates the gift while keeping it understated. This thoughtful gesture can make a lasting impression without overwhelming the date.
Handmade Gift
Something you create, like a small piece of artwork, a playlist, or a simple craft, can be heartfelt and unique gesture on a first date. Such gifts convey effort and sincerity, making them memorable without being overwhelming.
